Written by Shan Boodram.
What is flirting? It’s a playful, welcome back and forth where you and another person share the best things that you see in each other.
First, shout out to you
It’s incredibly sexy that you’re taking the time to gather perspectives so you can approach dating as the best version of yourself, and it speaks volumes about the kind of connection you’re going to create.
I study both intimacy and language. There’s a Greek word, meraki, which means to approach everything you choose to do with intention. That’s you right now!
Let’s unpack what flirting is
Flirting is simply communication with a spark of attraction. When we flirt, we share what we find most beautiful and fascinating about the other person and invite them to see it as well. If they reciprocate and share what they find beautiful in you, you know they’re on your wavelength.
Going beyond flirting
One way to go beyond flirting is to show consistent and genuine interest in being part of their world. This can be as simple as saying “I was thinking about that work thing you mentioned. It must’ve happened by now, and I’ve been curious to hear about it?” The key is to show that you’re paying attention, alongside your playful flirting.
Over time, keeping up this level of curiosity can nurture a deeper connection that will allow you both to become more and more vulnerable. Take these tips into your next connection and see where things lead
So that’s how to go from flirting to a deeper connection. Take these tips into your next conversation, and see where things lead.